Blog, bumpdate, pregnancy

Bumpdate with PinkBlush


Today I’m teaming up with Pinkblush to share a bumpdate and a few fun fall looks! Make sure you make it all the way to the end because I’m also sharing a discount code AND a giveaway!

I’m not quite sure how it happened so quickly, but as of last week, I’m officially in the 3rd trimester! It’s really hard for me to believe that I’m 29 weeks today. I’m sure part of it has to do with the fact that I’m busy taking care of 6 other children. But I also think it helps that I have been feeling so well this pregnancy. Instead of longing for the pregnancy to be over, I’m able to just enjoy the present.

Besides a few minor aches and pains that come occasionally, plus the addition of my big ol’ belly, I honestly don’t feel pregnant most of the time. And because of that darn anterior placenta, even her precious movements are hardly noticed. I will admit that it makes it very hard for me to “connect” with this baby. I don’t think it has actually hit me that she will be joining our family in 11(ish) short weeks. But I’ve experienced that lack of pregnancy bond before and I know that the moment I pull the baby out and place them on my chest, the connection is instant. So I’m not too worried about it right now.

One of my biggest struggles this pregnancy has been self image. My appetite has been out of control this time around and consequently, I have gained more than I have in the past. I try to remind myself that pregnancy is a gift and it’s beautiful no matter what…but you try telling that to someone with the emotions of a pregnant woman. It doesn’t always help me feel better.
During my last pregnancy, I discovered Pinkblush when I did a collaboration with them. I fell in love with their shop and ended up purchasing more items throughout the pregnancy. I love that their clothes don’t scream “maternity.” And many of the items I’ve gotten can be worn postpartum too..which is especially great during the weeks/months your body is transitioning to its new normal.

This time around I’ve had the opportunity to work with them again and it’s just one of those companies that I love working with because I truly do love what they have to offer and I feel good about recommending them to others. Their clothes help me feel better about the way I look, even when I do feel so huge.

I wanted to share a few items that I recently got, starting with this navy floral dress. This is one of the first fitted dresses I’ve worn this time around. The fabric is the softest thing ever and the sleeves have a slight bell shape at the elbow. And I love that I can still wear floral in the fall with this style!

**p.s. I totally had to add the picture below. When we went to the park to photograph this dress, the kids were running around and playing. Kai came over to give me a hug and kiss my belly and somehow that turned into an impromptu group hug. I was cracking up because even Desmond and Clementine ran over to hug me. I’m pretty sure Clem was mainly just jealous that I was hugging everyone else haha. But I think everyone is pretty excited about their new baby sister.

This black floral dress that I’m wearing in these next pictures (photographed by my friend, Stephanie) is a looser fit and so comfortable for someone who likes to feel like they’re wearing jammies all day 😉

I paired this dress with a non maternity denim jacket that’s getting to be a bit too snug. But I love the way the floral looks with the denim!

And finally, this floral hoodie! I was kind of apprehensive about wearing a hoodie during pregnancy. I was afraid it would make me look way bigger than I already am. But after trying it on, I actually loved how it fit and how comfortable it is! If you can’t tell, comfort is a BIG deal to me during pregnancy. When your body is already uncomfortable enough on its own, you don’t want your clothing adding to that. I love that Pinkblush makes clothes that are comfortable and cute.

All of these items are on sale today! Pinkblush is having a Cyber Monday sale! Use the code CYBERMONDAY to get 40% off! This is an amazing sale and the best time to stock up. And if you aren’t pregnant, make sure you check out the other clothes on their site. They don’t only have maternity, but also non-maternity, shoes, and accessories.

And because Pinkblush is so generous, they are giving me a $75 gift card for a giveaway!! To enter, leave a comment below. If you are on Instagram, make sure you find the picture of Clementine and me and follow the instructions there to enter! The giveaway will be open for 24 hours and then I will choose a winner soon after! You will then have 24 hours to claim your prize before I choose a different winner.

Thank you for reading and good luck!

November 27, 2017
Blog, Clementine, instagram, iphone

How I Take and Edit an Instagram Photo


I’m wrapping up my little 3 part “Instagram series” with this behind the scenes look at how I take an Instagram picture and edit it. You can find Part One (where I shared how I became an influencer) right HERE and Part Two (where I shared tips on how you can improve and grow your own feed) HERE.

I love behind the scenes stuff so I thought this post would be fun! I wanted to answer a few questions I get about my pictures (what camera I use, how I get pictures of Clementine sleeping, how I edit, etc.) So hopefully this post is helpful!

I could take this post a lot of different directions (phone vs. dslr, group shot vs. individual, etc.) But since I do get so many questions specifically about the sleeping Clementine pictures, I thought that would be a great example to use. And I always use my phone to get these shots so keep that in mind.

A lot of people want to know how I’m able to get well lit pictures of her sleeping so I’ll just show you the current (crammed) setup of her crib in our room.

As you can see, the light is flooding in directly by her bed. She’s been sleeping right here since she was itty bitty and she’s always been used to sleeping with the blinds open. So the light does not bother her while she’s napping. And as far as noise goes, we always use a fan at naptime and bedtime and since she is in our room, we are in and out of there a lot while she’s sleeping. So I feel like at this point, she can sleep through quite a bit.

Anyway, when I am planning to get a sleeping picture of her, I usually just lay her down with her little lovey that she won’t sleep without (from Stella and Lu) and leave the room until she falls asleep. And in case you’re wondering–yes, I do plan these pictures out in my head ahead of time. Sometimes I do it to display a product collaboration and sometimes it’s because I think it’s adorable. But I’m pretty sure all her naptime photos are planned before she even goes to sleep.

I check back in on her about 10 minutes later and 99.9% of the time, she’s sleeping. This is the point I take a picture because she’s in a deeper sleep and won’t startle awake as easily. However, whatever position she’s laying in when I walk in to check on her (on her back, belly, or side) I just have to work with because there’s no way I’m risking flipping her over just for a picture. So for the example I’m going to use, when I walked into our room, I found sweet Clementine napping like this…

I was excited that she was on her back because that’s the vision I had in my mind. But she was sleeping at an angle so I had to gently scoot her over to the center. Usually I don’t adjust that much but I had a very particular setup in my mind this time so I took the risk and moved her over.

I wanted to get a picture of Clementine sleeping with all of the Cuddle and Kind dolls we have. Evangeline and Kingston had the opportunity to be in a video shoot for them recently and they each got a doll in return. So after adding those 2 dolls to the 4 dolls we already had, I knew I wanted to get a picture of all of them together. **A little side note–This company does amazing things by donating meals to children in need. This weekend they are doubling their impact. Each doll sold= 20 meals donated! (No coupon required.) And you can get free shipping by using the code GIVETHANKS. This post isn’t sponsored by them but I always love to share about this company!

Anyway, this is one of the first pictures I took (it’s completely unedited.) I always start out with some test shots before I move anything around so I can get a better idea of what I want for the picture.

After I see the first shots, I start to make adjustments. I didn’t like how crammed it looked with all 6 dolls and I also didn’t like the repetition of the two unicorns so I took the smaller one away. I also didn’t like the way her legs looked so I tried to adjust those a bit. Sometimes she moves how I want her to, sometimes she doesn’t. After I felt like I had everything else adjusted, I took out her pacifier and started taking pictures. And here’s a dorky shot that I had Don take to show what I look like when I’m trying to get a picture. Whatever it takes to get “the shot.”

Because her legs were looking weird to me, I grabbed a blanket to cover them up. I kept making small adjustments until I liked the way everything was lined up. I ended up with the shot below. This was the last picture I took (after taking a ton.) P.S. that arm around the mermaid was actually something she did on her own and I love it!

So here it is unedited…

And here’s the edited version…

(Editing to add a disclaimer! When I posted this photo to Instagram, I felt that it still looked a little dull so I deleted it and then bumped up the brightness, highlights, and contrast through the Instagram editing.)

As you can see, I brightened it up quite a bit. The thing about editing is that everybody has a different style. And that’s okay! That’s what makes photography more interesting! My husband and I have opposite taste in editing. I like light and airy, he likes dark and contrasted. If this editing style is not your thing, that’s fine!

However, if you’d like to know how I got this final result, I actually made a video to share my editing from start to finish. Unfortunately, when I uploaded to youtube, it didn’t upload the audio. I was actually talking throughout and explaining each part but the audio didn’t carry over for some reason. Hopefully I can get that issue resolved if I do another video like this. But this time I guess you can just be thankful that you didn’t have to listen to my nasal-y voice.

To quickly summarize, I start with Snapseed to brighten, fix any discoloration, and “heal” out imperfections (like the stuff that didn’t get vacuumed up beforehand 😉 ) Then I usually run my pictures through A Color Story to put a filter on it (Punch from the Blush pack is my current favorite) and use the curves until I like the finished result. And then I do my final adjustments in Instagram (like changing perspective and straightening the picture.) I’m still working on my editing skills because I really never feel like that’s my specialty. But I know I have seen improvement at some point in the past few years.

Anyway, here is the video for you to see how I got the final picture! If you have any questions or think you’d like more examples, please let me know! Have a great weekend!

November 25, 2017